Nope, you just suck. The game is very easy to abuse and accumulate stats, you can get items that are worth dozens of thousands very easily. Some skills are very OP like spark because you deal scalable lighting damage to all enemies with chance to stun. There are also prob plenty other skills that are also strong but didn't bother to test each one. Just grind for better gear.
The game is an RPG where you make choices, if you make the wrong ones then you will fail and if you are smart you will learn from your mistakes, after that the game is very easy. Also you want to have sex with the girl to accumulate more stats, if you just wanna fap just watch any gallery or whatever, this is a game.